May 9, 2021Giving Birth in Portugal: A COVID-19 OdysseyGiving birth in Portugal, Part II — What follows is my birth story. It isn’t short; it’s more of an odyssey. Although I have shared this account with close friends a few times over, I have yet to find a way to tell it that does not sound dramatic, or make me sound like a victim —…Mothers And Daughters9 min readMothers And Daughters9 min read
May 9, 2021A Goat-Inspired Birth Plan, an Unintentional Introduction to HypnobirthingGiving birth in Portugal, Part I Somewhere along the way, in my early twenties, I became terrified of giving birth. I heard too many stories of things going wrong. …Motherhood4 min readMotherhood4 min read
Apr 23, 2021Becoming a Mother: Key resources that got me through the first few monthsThe list I wish someone had sent me The amount of information available to expecting and new moms is mind-boggling. Not only do you already have your hands full growing a little human, and then adjusting to your new life where a little person depends on you completely, but if you’re anything like me, you’re left with a…Parenting5 min readParenting5 min read
Published inBe Yourself·May 3, 2020Following Ursula Le Guin’s Advice: Working Through Steering the CraftExercises from Chapter 1 “the sound of your writing” In January 2018, a writer friend and I decided to have a call every two weeks to work on our writing, providing feedback and acting as accountability partners to each other. We started with Ursula Le Guin’s incredible book “Steering the…Writing4 min readWriting4 min read
Published inThe Creative Cafe·Mar 27, 2020Twilight, a Writing Prompt“How to write about twilight in a world of 140 characters” — Author’s note: This writing exercise was carried out in January, but seemed fitting to share now that we all have a bit more time to reflect. It has never been easier to get your words out into the world. From personal blogs and self-publishing platforms, and in a virtual reality…Writing Prompts3 min readWriting Prompts3 min read
Dec 21, 2019NaNoWriMo 2019: Learning from FailureBecause failure is merely an opportunity to learn disguised as a setback This is my third year participating in the National Novel Writing Month, aka NaNoWriMo. For the past two years, it was fun, and relatively painless to bang out 50,000 words in 30 days. …Writing6 min readWriting6 min read
Aug 9, 2019Making a Mountain of a HillA hiking adventure gone wrong (or so right?) — The three of us sat on the uneven ground, rocks and roughage digging into my thighs. Jean was on the phone, smiling and nodding like everything was going according to plan. When she hung up, she didn’t say anything — or maybe I was just in a rush to know…Hiking6 min readHiking6 min read
Published inBe Yourself·Jan 10, 2019Why standing up for justice trumps being polite every day of the weekBecause sometimes, the little things matter — The day started like any other, but it wasn’t quite a day like any other — I was invited to a party! The Easter Party On this particular occasion, I hitched a ride with my godfather. I was excited to go to this Easter Party, even though the hostess (I’ll…Short Story4 min readShort Story4 min read
Published inThe Writing Cooperative·Jan 7, 2019The Power of NaNoWriMoAnd what other writing challenges can unlock in you. — Last year, I participated in the National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo for those who are “in the know”) for the second time. I made it to the end, and claimed my victory. Or did I? In 2017, I wrote the first draft of a YA fantasy novel. It felt revolutionary…Writing4 min readWriting4 min read
Published inThe Writing Cooperative·Nov 14, 2018Turning this year’s NaNoWriMo writing challenge on its headBecause writers aren’t always very good at following the rules — A year ago, I took the plunge and participated in my first ever National Novel Writing Month — NaNoWriMo for short — writing challenge. …Writing4 min readWriting4 min read